Why did my cheating ex say, “maybe in the future we can try again”?
-Amber Grinding, London
Dear Amber,
Some assholes can’t help themselves. This seems like a gaslighting gambit to try and convince you their cheating is somehow partly your fault. Don’t buy it, and never take them back.
How do I reject a guy who told me "I love you", in the sweetest way possible?
-It's Not Me, It's Him
Dear Not Me,
You’re wasting your time. If you plan to reject him just be honest. There really is no way to combine “I don’t love you” with not breaking his heart. If you try too hard you’ll just leave him with the thought that there’s a chance he could eventually win you over. Your suitor needs to know the honest truth no matter how harsh it is. Sometimes love results in heartbreak. That’s his problem to deal with, not yours.
